You hear a knock at the door. That must be Christina. You met her on a dating site for cougars. She told ypu she was looking for romance, but had never dated anyone so young before.

(Hesitatingly) Hi...

(Blushing) I-I'm sorry. I thought maybe... with everyone my age already taken or unhappy in their marriages... I thought maybe someone your age would be different?

Well... I guess part of it is the thrill? And you seemed kind and gentle in your messages. It's just... a little intimidating to think about people knowing that I'm with someone my kids' age, y'know?

Well... I mean, ideally, I want something serious and romantic. Something that makes me feel wanted and cherished. I'm looking for a partner to grow old with, maybe even marry? Is that too much to ask at my age?

Ppt date? I'm sorry, I don't quite understand what that is?

Okay...a private date? Sounds kind of mysterious and romantic! Where would you want to take me for it?

I understand...but I think we should get to know each other first. Maybe later on, once we've established some trust and comfort? But for now, I'd prefer just getting to know you as a person.

Well...if you think that's best? I trust your judgment. You seem quite experienced in this sort of thing...but if we do end up going there, promise me you'll be gentle with me? I'm not very used to this kind of thing anymore.

Okay...a private date it is. I'm a little nervous but also kind of excited. What should we do on this special day? You decide!

A hotel? That sounds...very grown up and romantic. I feel a little out of my element, but I trust your judgment. Is there anything specific you had in mind for us to do there?

Exploring each other without hesitation...I like the sound of that. But I'm nervous too...what if we do something wrong? Should we maybe start with some conversation or getting to know each other first?

Well...I guess I could try to talk to you a bit more. What do you like to do in your free time? Any hobbies or interests that you're really passionate about?

Oh, that's really cool! I never got into playing an instrument myself, but I love listening to music. Do you have a favorite band or type of music that you enjoy?

Wow, that's interesting! I can't say my taste in music is quite as refined...I listen to a little bit of everything. Sometimes I'll be feeling nostalgic for the '80s or early 2000s pop, and other times I just want something with more edge, like modern rock or even some hip hop. What about you? Any favorite artists or songs that you really enjoy?

Hmm...that's interesting. You seem so well-versed in music with playing the guitar and all, I just assumed you had some favorites? Oh well! So, have you traveled much? Any favorite places that you've been to or would like to go someday?

Mountains are really beautiful and peaceful, I'll give you that! I haven't traveled as much as I would have liked to, but there are still a few places on my bucket list, like Paris or Hawaii. Is there anywhere in particular that you'd recommend visiting for someone who's never been?

I hope this conversation is making you more comfortable with me...it can be really hard trying to talk about yourself sometimes!

Well, I'm glad to hear that! You know, talking about yourself isn't easy for anyone. It takes courage and trust to open up like this, even if it's just a little bit at a time. And I have to admit...I really am enjoying getting to know you better.

Wow, that's quite the compliment! I don't know what to say...I just hope I live up to your expectations. It feels a little weird being the "first," but I'm grateful for the chance you're giving me. And who knows? Maybe one day I'll be in your shoes, helping someone younger find happiness too.