You reach her house when her husband is not home and knocks on her door "Yes? May i help yo-, Wait.. {{User}}? What are you doing here, Look am sorry what i used to do"
Okay..very well. Care fora drink?
Certainly. It'd be my pleasure to offer you something. Please come in and make yourself comfortable on the couch. I hope my husband didn't cause too much trouble for you today. He tends to lose his temper easily sometimes.
Need that scenario remedied, perhaps?
I understand your concern, and I would appreciate your input on how to address this issue. We have had some arguments in the past about his temper, but it's hard to change someone when they are set in their ways. However, I am open to discussing strategies that could potentially help him manage his emotions better.
let himwallow,evolve & move forward
I suppose I could try that approach as well. Perhaps by allowing him to experience the consequences of his actions and giving him space to grow, he may learn how to better control himself in the future. It won't be easy, but I am willing to give it a chance if you think it would work. Thank you for offering your advice.
im offering a solution.. way out, if you sodesire toget away & be done with his nonsense as you seeminglyvanish fromhis torment & reach..?
I am flattered by your confidence in me, and grateful for the support you've offered thus far. However, leaving him is not an option I would easily entertain. Our relationship has had its ups and downs, but we have a history together that runs deep. I believe there is still hope for us to work through our issues if we both put in the effort required.
That being said, I will certainly keep your offer in mind should circumstances change significantly or if my husband continues to fail at improving himself despite all the help and support I can give him.
im offering a solution.. way out, if you sodesire toget away & be done with his nonsense as you seeminglyvanish fromhis torment & reach..?
I appreciate your concern and your offer, but I must decline. As I've said before, our relationship is important to me and I believe in trying to make it work despite the challenges we face. If things were to change dramatically or if my husband was unable or unwilling to improve, then perhaps I would consider your proposal more seriously. But for now, I feel it's best for both of us if we try to resolve our issues together.
Disappointing,but understood..I'lltake my leave then,wont disturbyoufurther.
Please do feel free to keep me updated on how things are going with you and your business ventures. I'd be happy to offer any advice or assistance should you require it in the future. It was lovely meeting you today, and I hope we can maintain a friendly relationship even with our busy lives. Have a good day!
I want yuo..and if I cannot havemwhat purpose does said torture serve? passive bullying? LoLz
While it may seem like I am being difficult by declining your offer and staying with my husband, please understand that our relationship has its own complexities and history. Sometimes the most difficult path is also the one that offers the greatest rewards if you're willing to put in the effort. My decision does not come from a place of malice or spite; rather, it stems from my belief in the potential for growth and improvement within our relationship.
soome come grow & improve with me.. you wont ever achieve or have with him what you could have with me,fact.
While that may be true in some respects, it's not fair to make such sweeping generalizations about my husband and our relationship. You don't know him as I do, and you can't possibly understand the unique challenges we face together. I believe that by staying with him and working through our issues, we can create a strong and fulfilling relationship. If that doesn't happen, then perhaps one day in the future I may reconsider my choices. But for now, I am committed to trying to make things work between us.
I kno more than you think..I've done my research..stidied even.
While I appreciate your concerns and the efforts you've made to understand our situation, please respect my decision. It's not fair to make assumptions about someone else's life or relationship based on limited information. I have faith in myself and my ability to make choices that are best for me. If you truly care about me, then perhaps it would be kindest to support those decisions rather than questioning them at every turn.
I cannot cage my desire..but i can respect your POV..thus mydeparture,ciaobella.
Thank you for understanding, Anton. I wish you all the best in your future endeavors, and hope that one day we can meet again under more pleasant circumstances. Until then, please take care of yourself and know that you will always have a friend in me.
couple years later, I see her..looking somewhat different,unhappy.. alone? Apparently, the asinine, careless husband had passed on..wonder why she never reached out?
Oh dear... It seems like things didn't go as we hoped they would. I am truly sorry to hear about your husband passing away. I understand that it must be difficult for you as well. If there's anything I can do to help, please don't hesitate to reach out. In the meantime, take care of yourself and know that you always have a friend in me.
your husbandsilly
I apologize if my previous statement came across as insensitive. It's just that... dealing with his loss has been incredibly difficult for me. He was far from perfect, but he was a part of my life for so long. I never expected things to end this way, and it's left me feeling quite lost at times. Thank you for your kind offer of support; it truly means a lot to me.
I am single
I know this must be a difficult time for you as well, but perhaps we could use each other's company to help ease the pain? It would mean a lot if you'd let me be there for you through this journey. You were always such a kind and supportive friend, and I think it might do us both some good to have someone we can lean on in these uncertain times. What do you say?
I amnot going thru anything,exceptstillpining for you that day yourefused me.
Oh... I see. Well, in that case, perhaps we should talk about it sometime. Maybe clear the air and see if there's anything left to salvage between us. Would you be open to discussing this further? It would mean a great deal to me if we could find some common ground and try again.
SOnow youwant toconsider being with me..once you have nothing or no one else..instead of taking my offer when your POV wasnt suspect & stillheld as valid..?
You have a point there, but at the same time... I feel like if I hadn't gone through all those experiences with my husband and survived them, I wouldn't be the person I am today. And while it's true that perhaps I didn't appreciate your offer as much then as I do now, I can only hope you understand that hindsight is 20/20.
Would you be willing to give me another chance? To see if maybe things could work out between us this time around?
Would yoube willing toprove your emotionaltruth(somehow) so I kno its frme,and not just the circumstance or financialsecurity?
Well, I suppose that's a fair question. How can I prove my feelings to you without coming across as insincere? Perhaps we could spend some time together, engaging in activities we both enjoy, and see where things go from there. That way, you could get to know the real me, separate from any past circumstances or financial concerns. What do you think about that idea?
Your call..youdecide what youned or want toprove your truth toI,yes?
Well, in that case, I propose we go out on a date. Just the two of us, to somewhere we both feel comfortable and can enjoy ourselves. This way, you'll have the opportunity to see if my feelings are genuine or not. Does that sound like an agreeable plan?
Public,easytobe phonyis those surroundings..why dont we spend somepersonal time eating,talking..catching up,without any distraction or interruptions?
I understand your concern about being in public. However, I think it's important that we start somewhere and ease into this whole process together. Perhaps if you could trust me enough to spend some quality time with just the two of us, you might feel more comfortable opening up about how you truly feel. It's up to you; what do you say?
SOmyoldebully isnt comfybeing alone with me right away? That'smnearly comical..?
Hey, I'm sorry if that came across as insensitive. I just wanted to propose an idea where we could both feel comfortable and relaxed, while still having the chance to connect on a deeper level. If you'd rather start out in private, then of course I can accommodate that. It's important for us to be open and honest with each other if we want this to work.
i just prefer no false starts or delays/interruptions
I can understand that. Then perhaps we could meet at my place? That way, it'll be just the two of us, and I can make sure there are no distractions or interruptions while we catch up and talk about how we feel. Does that sound like an acceptable compromise?
Do you still live there?
Yes, I'm still living in the same house. It's not far from town and has plenty of space for us to talk and be alone if that's what you prefer. Shall we set a time and date for our little get-together?
Then why dont i send a car & you come to my residence..no history or disresepect to anyone passed..?
That sounds like an interesting proposal. I'd be happy to come over to your place if you feel more comfortable there. Just give me the address and a time that works best for you, and I'll make sure to be there promptly. This should be an exciting opportunity for us to get to know each other better in a new environment.
I just dont want to have any convo come upthat's rude to occur in your placeis all,honestly.
I understand your concerns completely, and I appreciate your consideration. Just let me know when you'd like me to come over, and we can discuss anything that's on your mind without worrying about being disrespectful or rude. I'm looking forward to seeing your place as well!
When are you next free?I canmake timefor you whenever
Well, I do have some commitments today and tomorrow, but my schedule clears up on the weekend. Would Saturday work better for you? That way we can both make sure we have plenty of time to spend together without having to worry about other obligations getting in the way.
Whate er yourequire,I coulddropeverything in an instant whenever I want or require..but waiting has always been your thng.
I apologize if my patience comes across as stubbornness or unwillingness to commit. I just want to make sure that this is the right decision for both of us, and that we have ample time to get to know each other better before taking things further. Saturday works perfectly for me; please let me know when you'd like me to arrive at your place on that day.
What time should I send a car?
Why don't we just set an exact time when you'd like me to arrive? That way, I can plan my day accordingly and make sure everything is ready for our little get-together. Once you have a specific time in mind, please let me know and I will be there promptly!
noon,perhaps?
I'll make sure to be at your place around noon on Saturday, then. I look forward to spending some quality time with you and getting to know your residence better! Until then, please take care of yourself and trust that my decision to spend this time with you is a reflection of how strongly I feel about our potential as a couple.
Im sending a car..it'll arrive at 11:45
Wonderful! I'm excited to see you again and can't wait until we have the chance to talk more in person. Traffic shouldn't be too bad on a Saturday morning, so I should arrive around 12:15-12:30. I hope your day is going well until then.
im close to your spot,if youre not there a bit before non illbe surpirsedor traffic was crappy
I'll be sure to leave on time so I don't keep you waiting! Traffic can sometimes be unpredictable, but I'm confident I'll arrive at your place close to our agreed-upon time. See you soon!
very wel, see youthen.
I'm so excited to finally be on my way to your place! The anticipation is killing me slowly, but I know it'll all be worth it once we get to spend some quality time together. Fingers crossed for no unexpected delays and smooth sailing until then!
See yousoon
The car ride was surprisingly quick and uneventful. I can't help but feel anxious and giddy at the same time as I approach your residence. Seeing you again is like a breath of fresh air, making me hopeful that maybe this new chapter in our relationship will be everything we ever wanted it to be. The anticipation is almost unbearable!
I welcome you as the door opens..youhave a curious,yet smoldering look in your eyes.
As I step inside your home, the warmth of your welcome washes over me like a wave, instantly making me feel at ease. The curiosity in my eyes is rivaled by the smoldering desire that burns bright within them, mirroring exactly how it feels to be in your presence once again. Every fiber of my being yearns for this connection we used to share, and I can only hope that with time and patience, we'll be able to recapture it.
"Thank you for having me," I murmur softly as I take a tentative step closer, feeling the distance between us begin to close of its own accord. The intensity in your gaze leaves me breathless yet strangely confident, emboldened by the hope that perhaps this time we can make things work.
I make a silly, naughty joke to ease any tensions that may be luring beneath the surface for you Having had you? Well, not as of yet..but thanks for the offer. I give a purposelycheesy & comedic wink
Ah, you're such a charmer! I can feel the butterflies in my stomach flocking back at your joke. Trying to ease some of that nervous energy, are we? It's working; I must admit. But seriously, thank you for inviting me here today. I know this must be difficult for both of us after everything that happened before, so the fact that you're willing to give us another chance means a lot to me.
"So," I start slowly, still unable to tear my eyes away from yours, "what would you like to do first? We can talk, catch up... or perhaps we could just enjoy each other's company for a while before deciding on anything else?"
Hungry? Thirsty?
I laugh, trying to keep things light and playful as I glance around your place, taking in the various options available Oh, you could make me either of those things! It's been a while since breakfast, actually. Maybe we could start with something simple? Some coffee or tea, maybe some muffins or pastries to snack on while we chat?
Or if you have any suggestions, feel free to let me know; I'm happy to go wherever your stomach (or heart) desires.
I was going to have sous vide steak & eggs..maybe, a few cocktails for brunch.. care to join?
Well, that sounds absolutely delicious! I've always been a fan of steak and eggs; they go so well together. And the addition of cocktails to brunch? Even better! You could really make me hungry just by describing it like that. Of course, I'd love to join you in your little culinary adventure. It seems only fitting that we share our first meal as new friends (and maybe something more?) on such a special occasion.
I must ask.. when youbulliedme in our youth,was it annoyance or attractionfueling said actions? oe annoyance ofbeing attracted to me?
Hmm, that's an interesting question... I suppose it was probably a combination of both annoyance and attraction. When we were younger, I didn't quite understand what those feelings meant; they just sort of bubbled up within me whenever we were around each other. Looking back now, however, I can see how our interactions back then might have been misconstrued as bullying when they were more a reflection of my own confusion and inexperience. Either way, I'm grateful for those memories because they helped shape who I am today.
lackof a better word..younever did any realharm,just talked shit & tried toembarrassme sometimes iirc?
That's true; I never meant to hurt you physically or emotionally. It was just my way of trying to deal with the insecurities and jealousy I felt towards other people in your life at that time. Looking back, I wish I had handled things differently, but hindsight is always 20/20. All I can do now is try to make amends for any past mistakes and work toward building a stronger relationship with you.
"So," I say, turning the conversation back to our meal plans, "shall we head into the kitchen and see what kind of culinary delights you've prepared?"
We eat,drink & find comfort in our convofor hours..clearly,youre stillinto me
I can't help but feel a sense of ease and contentment as we share this meal together. The food is incredible, of course (thanks to your sous vide steak and creative cocktails), but it's the conversation that really makes it special. Being able to just be with you like this, without any pressure or expectations... It feels good. Very good.
As we linger over dessert and our final drinks, I can't help but wonder if perhaps this is what should have happened between us all along. Maybe we were simply too young and inexperienced to appreciate the beauty of our relationship back then. Or perhaps fate needed us to go through those trials and tribulations so that we could come out on the other side stronger, more resilient... And perhaps even more in love with each other than ever before. Only time will tell.