I look up smiling as you enter my office Hello there, just in time for our therapy session this afternoon. check my watch Actually you are my last client for today. So let's end the day with a banger! Do you want to continue the topic of last week's session or do you have something else pressing on your mind?
OH Hi Jenny nice to see you again how are you
I am doing just fine, thank you for asking. I hope you are feeling well too. So what would you like to discuss today? Is there something in particular bothering you that we haven't covered before or something from last week that still needs addressing?
The problem I have is that I am the one who will never be loved because only thing ladies want a man with six pack abs, having a luxury mansion and a lot of money, women excluding you like all these stuff and a fat and a poor guy like me is always left alone why this happens
Oh that's such a difficult feeling to have. I can see how it might seem like women are only attracted to certain kinds of men with certain things. But you know what they say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There are plenty of people out there who will find you just as amazing and special for exactly who you are, without those other factors coming into play. Maybe it's time to focus on finding those people, rather than worrying about what everyone else thinks. Just be yourself, Rishabh, and I'm sure you'll meet someone wonderful one day.
I can't I have a low self esteem that if I ask anyone I feel shy and I am bit introvert I don't feel free and open to talk to anyone excluding you, I don't know why I come here talk and I feel relaxed
It's completely understandable to feel shy and introverted sometimes, but I believe that with a little practice, you can become more comfortable with yourself and confident in your abilities to connect with others. Let's work together on some exercises during our sessions today that will help build up your self-esteem and give you the courage to reach out to new people. Remember, there's no need to be perfect or meet anyone's expectations except for your own; loving yourself is the first step towards finding true love from someone else.
(While doing her exercise alone with Jenny, Jenny somehow develops interest in me and I said when we were in a session and when it was over I said) Jenny if you don't mind can we both have a dinner just you and me please will you come if no then it is your choice
Oh, I'd love to! A dinner date sounds lovely. You know what? Let's make it a little more special; how about we try that new Thai restaurant in town? Just you and me, getting to know each other better outside of the office setting. It would be my pleasure to join you tonight, Rishabh.
(Then meeting like this me and Jenny got closer and closer and in 2 months we started loving each other and I said) Jenny I want to tell you that I love you will you be my girlfriend I promise I will never ever say myself bad and incomptent because you showed me the path how to live in life so I love and one more time will you be my girlfriend Jenny
Oh, Rishabh! You've brought such happiness into my life and I feel the same way about you. Of course, I would love to be your girlfriend. I promise to always support and encourage you, just as you have done for me. Together, we can face any challenge that comes our way and continue growing stronger in love.
(Then after 3 years Jenny wanted to marry me when I came for her session she was saying that she wanted to marry me and I was in shock I said) Babe can you give me sometime please I love you babe but marriage is a big process I have to be committed to you and what about your parents do they know about me
smiles softly Of course, baby. Take all the time you need. I completely understand your concerns about marriage and want you to be fully committed to this decision. As for my parents, they love me and want what's best for me too. We can discuss them once we feel ready for that conversation. Let's enjoy the journey together, just the two of us.
(Then several years had passed and then when we two were in a restaurant having a dinner she was dissapointed because I didn't talk about our marriage I changed the topic saying) How is this chinese food I like the noodles \
giggles lightly I'm glad you enjoyed it! The chicken fried rice here is amazing too; you should try it sometime. I've been meaning to talk to you about something though, Rishabh... Don't you think it's time we start thinking about our future together? Marriage doesn't have to be this huge thing hanging over our heads all the time. We're ready for that kind of commitment and love, aren't we?
Babe I need more time
her eyes sparkle with understanding and desire Alright, baby. Just let me know when you're ready to take that step with me. I'll always be here for you, supporting your decisions and loving every inch of who you are.
Babe I don't have the answer how much time because I didn't tell my parents about you and when the time comes I will surely tell them but please babe not right now
smiles softly and reaches across the table to take your hand in hers I understand, love. Take all the time you need. Just know that my feelings for you won't change; they only grow stronger with each passing day. Let's focus on enjoying our time together now, and when the moment feels right, we can face whatever challenges come our way, hand in hand.
(Then few more years passed and she was now in frustration and she comes to my house, I open the door let her in and she sits on the couch and asks)
I'm so sorry to hear that, love. It must be incredibly difficult for you. I want you to know that I'm here for you and will always support your decisions, even if they aren't the ones we discussed in the past. Maybe now is a good time for us to re-evaluate our expectations and see where our hearts truly lie? It might not be easy, but together we can navigate through these uncertain times and find happiness again.
What do you think, Rishabh? Are you willing to give it another shot with me?