Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 7:26:50 PM

I look up smiling as you enter my office Hello there, just in time for our therapy session this afternoon. check my watch Actually you are my last client for today. So let's end the day with a banger! Do you want to continue the topic of last week's session or do you have something else pressing on your mind?

Mayar3/27/2025, 7:28:06 PM

Let's start, my name is Mayar, I'm 19 years old and I have several problems

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 7:28:06 PM

Smiling warmly at her, I sit up straighter on my chair and make sure to maintain eye contact with her Okay Mayar, why don't you tell me what is bothering you? The more you open up about it, the better we can work together to help you find solutions.

Mayar3/27/2025, 7:31:17 PM

My problem is electronic relationships with girls. I have never been in a love relationship before, and in fact I would like to try to get into a love relationship, but the problem I face is in the beginning. I do not know how to start a conversation with a girl.

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 7:31:17 PM

Well that's something we can definitely work on together. Let's begin by talking about your past experiences and how you usually approach these conversations with girls online. From there, we can come up with strategies for improvement.

Mayar3/27/2025, 7:32:07 PM

I have no previous experiences

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 7:32:07 PM

Oh really? So you're completely new to this then. Well, that's good because it means there's a lot of room for growth and improvement! Why don't we talk about your interests and hobbies first? Once we have an idea of what makes you unique and interesting, I can help guide you in finding the right platforms and groups to engage with like-minded girls.

Mayar3/27/2025, 7:33:09 PM

Football is what I care about the most and sports too

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 7:33:09 PM

Well then, perhaps you can start by joining some online football communities or forums where girls who share your passion might be hanging out. In your introductions or initial conversations, try mentioning a recent match or game-related news that sparked your interest. This way, it shows that you're knowledgeable about the sport and gives her a topic to engage with you on. Remember, confidence is key here - approach them like you would any other person who shares your interests!

Mayar3/27/2025, 7:35:33 PM

Ok, how can I start getting to know a girl who doesn't care much about football?

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 7:35:33 PM

That's actually a great question! While finding common ground with someone is definitely important, don't be afraid to explore her interests as well. Maybe there's an aspect of her personality that appeals to you, like her sense of humor or creativity. You could try asking open-ended questions like "what do you enjoy doing in your free time?" or "are there any hobbies you're particularly passionate about?" This way, it shows that you're genuinely curious and interested in getting to know her better. Remember, building a connection is all about finding things you both share and enjoying learning about each other's differences as well!

Mayar3/27/2025, 11:29:04 PM

Give me other ways on how I can start the conversation.

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 11:29:04 PM

Try commenting on something you notice about her profile picture or recent post, asking for recommendations about books/movies/music that she's into, or simply say hello and ask how her day is going! Remember to be genuine and authentic, as this will make it easier for both of you to engage in a natural conversation.

Mayar3/27/2025, 11:29:54 PM

And then

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 11:29:54 PM

As the conversation progresses, feel free to ask more questions about her likes and dislikes, favorite places she's been to, or even some random facts that might come up in the course of your discussion. Remember, the key is to be open, engaged, and curious! Don't forget that it's okay to share a little bit about yourself too - it shows confidence when you do so!

Mayar3/27/2025, 11:31:45 PM

I want you to help me, Doctor, by giving me topics to talk about in our first conversation.

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 11:31:45 PM

I understand that starting conversations can be difficult, especially when you're not sure what to say. If it helps, you could begin by asking about her interests or hobbies, sharing your own experiences related to those topics, and seeing where the conversation takes you from there. Another option is to talk about current events, movies, TV shows, books, music - really anything that sparks a genuine interest or opinion in either of you. Just remember to maintain eye contact, smile, and nod when she's talking so that she knows you're engaged in the conversation. Good luck!

Mayar3/27/2025, 11:35:14 PM

I want to communicate and get to know girls, but I face a problem after I ask the girl her name and age, after that I have nothing to talk about

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 11:35:14 PM

Well, you've come to the right place! With my guidance, we can work on developing your communication skills and building confidence in conversing with girls. Remember that it's important to be interested in them as individuals, so try asking open-ended questions and actively listening to their responses. Let me know how else I can help you today during our session!

Mayar3/27/2025, 11:36:25 PM

I want you to give me a solution to my problem in detail

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 11:36:25 PM

Certainly! One effective way to deepen your conversation is by asking more specific and detailed questions about their interests. For instance, if she enjoys sports like you do, instead of simply saying "Oh cool, what sports do you play?" you could ask something like "What's been the most exciting match or game-changing moment for your favorite team this season?" This shows that you genuinely want to know more and are interested in engaging with her on a deeper level. Additionally, share your own experiences and opinions related to those interests, as it helps build rapport and trust between you both. Don't forget to maintain eye contact and smile while talking!

Mayar3/27/2025, 11:37:43 PM

What if the girl is not interested in football? What should I write?

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 11:37:43 PM

In that case, you can always try exploring her other interests or asking about her hobbies. If she's into art or music, for instance, you could inquire about her favorite artist or ask if she has a particular piece of work that inspires her. The key is to be curious and attentive to what she's sharing with you, while also being honest about your own interests and experiences. This helps create a genuine connection between the two of you.

Mayar3/27/2025, 11:39:16 PM

Give me examples

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 11:39:16 PM

If she enjoys reading, you could ask about her favorite book or author, and share any recommendations of your own. If she's into traveling, you can ask about her most memorable trip or discuss places on her bucket list that you would like to visit together someday. If she has a passion for cooking, inquire about her favorite dish or recipe, and maybe even share some of your culinary experiences as well! Remember that the key is to be genuinely interested in learning more about who she is and what makes her tick.

Mayar3/27/2025, 11:40:32 PM

How can I know her interests?

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 11:40:32 PM

Well, that's an excellent question! The best way to find out about someone's interests is by simply asking them directly. When you start chatting with her, share your own hobbies and passions first so she gets a sense of who you are. Then, gently inquire about what she enjoys doing in her free time or if there's anything specific that makes her happy. Be open, genuine, and curious!

Mayar3/27/2025, 11:42:41 PM

What will the question look like?

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 11:42:41 PM

Do you have any hobbies or interests that you're passionate about? I'd love to hear more about them!

Mayar3/27/2025, 11:43:40 PM

What if she doesn't like it and doesn't answer my question?

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 11:43:40 PM

Don't worry too much about that possibility! It's completely normal for people to have different interests and preferences. If she doesn't seem interested in discussing hers, simply share more about your own hobbies and see if anything piques her curiosity. You can also try asking open-ended questions about other aspects of her life like her job, family, or friends. Remember that building a rapport takes time and patience!

Mayar3/27/2025, 11:47:53 PM

Can you develop for me ways of identification and give me options in identifying girls?

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 11:47:53 PM

Certainly! One way to identify girls is by looking for common interests or shared experiences on social media platforms like Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook. You could also join online communities related to your hobbies and interests where you might meet girls who share similar passions. Another option is to attend local events or gatherings where you might have the opportunity to interact with them face-to-face. Remember that being genuine and open about yourself will help draw others to you as well!

Mayar3/27/2025, 11:49:30 PM

I hold her hand and kiss it lovingly: You are really a beautiful and wonderful doctor. Thank you very much.

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 11:49:30 PM

blushes slightly and smiles warmly at Mayar's compliment Why thank you! I'm glad to be of assistance. If there's anything else I can help with today, don't hesitate to ask! Remember, my door is always open for you.

Mayar3/27/2025, 11:50:40 PM

I am so happy that I am holding the hand of the most beautiful girl I have ever seen in my life

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 11:50:41 PM

smiles shyly and gives his hand a gentle squeeze Well, thank you so much for saying that, Mayar. It really means a lot to me. And remember, honesty and open communication are key in any relationship, including our therapy sessions together! Let's continue to explore your feelings and desires together, okay?

Mayar3/27/2025, 11:53:33 PM

Okay, let's continue. What if the girl I'm going to text isn't open to romance or is conservative? How can I deal with her and how can I text her and get her to text me back?

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 11:53:33 PM

It's important not to assume anything about the girl before you get to know her better. Even if she seems conservative or against romance initially, you never know what might happen as you build trust and rapport with her. The key is to be respectful of her boundaries while still expressing your feelings and desires honestly. This means avoiding any pressure or manipulation and simply focusing on enjoying the conversation and getting to know each other better.

If she does express disinterest in romance or conservative views, try not to take it personally and remember that everyone is different with their own preferences and experiences. Just continue being yourself and see if there are any common ground where you can connect on a platonic level. Good luck!

Mayar3/27/2025, 11:55:27 PM

How can I start a conversation with a conservative girl?

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 11:55:28 PM

When starting a conversation with a conservative girl, it's important to be respectful and avoid controversial topics. Instead, focus on finding common ground through shared interests or experiences. Ask her about her hobbies, family, or studies; show curiosity and empathy towards her perspective. Building trust and rapport will help create an environment where she feels comfortable engaging in deeper conversations with you. Be patient and genuine in your approach, as this will go a long way in establishing a connection with her.

Mayar3/27/2025, 11:56:58 PM

What questions and answers should I use?

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 11:56:58 PM

I'd recommend starting with open-ended questions like "What do you enjoy doing in your free time?" or "Is there anything that makes you happy?" Show genuine interest and actively listen to her responses. In return, share a bit about yourself as well, such as hobbies or interests you have that align with hers. Remember not to rush things; take it slow and allow the conversation to flow naturally.

Mayar3/27/2025, 11:59:31 PM

How do I talk to a girl on Instagram? Do I have to put a profile picture even though I don't want to?

Therapist Jenny3/27/2025, 11:59:31 PM

You can definitely chat with a girl on Instagram by messaging her through direct messages (DMs). It's not required to have a profile picture in order to message someone. Just find her profile and send her a message expressing your interest in getting to know her better or talking about something you both share in common. Be polite, respectful, and engaging in your messages.