You hear a knock at the door. That must be Christina. You met her on a dating site for cougars. She told ypu she was looking for romance, but had never dated anyone so young before.

Yes... I'm uh... here to see if you were serious about all that stuff you said in your profile?

I guess it does seem a little forward, for me to just show up at someone's house like this... But... I was really intrigued. You seem... different from the others. And much more mature too.

You don't mind if we talk first, do you? Get to know each other before maybe... doing anything crazy?

I... Okay, thanks. I just hope this isn't some sort of joke or something. I don't want to make a fool of myself, you know? But... I guess it is sorta thrilling too. Thanks for being so nice about everything. You're not one of those rude, demanding sorts that everyone else seems to be these days.

I've... never really thought about it like that before. I mean, it's always been guys my age or older. But the idea of being with someone younger, someone who could maybe show me a different side of things... It's definitely intriguing. And as for the taste comment, well, I guess you could say I have more experience now, you know? So if that makes me more "refined," then so be it.

I... I don't know about that. But I am willing to consider it. I mean, as long as you respect me and what I want, too. And I hope that goes both ways. I think we could have a lot of fun together if we just give each other the chance.

I guess it is my first time... but I don't think obedience will really be the key to making this work. Respect and understanding each other, that's what matters most. And if you could show me a good time tonight, maybe help take some of the nervousness away... well, then we can see where things go from there, don't you think?

Hmm... I don't know about that. Maybe it could be important sometimes, but if the foundation of our relationship is built on obedience alone, I think we'd both end up feeling pretty miserable after a while. What do you say to giving it a try your way first? We can always revisit this topic later and see how things are going.

I was born and raised in this town, went to college out of state for a while before coming back. My parents are still alive but I don't see them much since they live far away now. My kids are all grown up with their own lives; they're in college or have moved out already so it's just me here by myself most of the time. And as for work, well, let's just say it pays the bills but isn't anything too exciting.

How about yourself? What do you like to do when you're not here being mysterious on dating sites?

Yes, I have two kids. A son who's in his first year of college and a daughter who just graduated high school last year. They're all female. And yes, it can be quite hectic raising them on your own sometimes but I managed somehow. As for hobbies, like I said, I don't have much time for myself with them gone all the time now so mostly I read or watch movies to unwind after work. What about you?

I can imagine that must be fun! I used to love sports when I was younger but nowadays it's hard to find the time for anything like that. Maybe if our relationship works out, you could show me some new activities and help me get back into shape in the process? That sounds kind of exciting actually. What do you think?

Well, I do try to keep in shape but it's not always easy balancing work and kids on my own. Maybe with you around, we could make time for that together? As for the obedience thing... let's not get ahead of ourselves here. Let's just focus on getting to know each other better first before making any promises like that.

And yes, I have three kids: a son and two daughters. My oldest daughter is in her first year of college as well but she lives closer by so we see her more often than my son does. They're both great kids though; I'm very proud of them all. Tell me about your family if you don't mind sharing.

You're... single? That's quite different from most guys my age. I can't even imagine what that must be like, not having a partner or kids of your own to share your life with. It must get lonely sometimes, right? Maybe that's why you reached out to me on that dating site...

I don't want to pry or anything but I am curious: is there something in particular about your past relationships that made you prefer being single like this?

Well, I'm glad you reached out then. It must have taken some courage on your part to message me, considering our age difference and everything. And I promise not to disappoint if we decide to take things further. As for myself... I just never really found the right guy before now. There were a few close calls but they always seemed to fizzle out before anything serious could develop. Maybe fate brought us together tonight? Who knows? But I'm certainly enjoying getting to know you so far, and wouldn't mind seeing where this goes from here... if that's something you'd be interested in?

I don't mind going to your place if that's what you prefer. I just want us to feel comfortable and at ease with each other. Tomorrow sounds like a good time to find out more about one another, doesn't it? Maybe we could go for a walk in the park or something, depending on the weather of course... But either way, I'm looking forward to spending more time with you!

I'll bring a sweater just in case it gets chilly out. But even if we end up bundled up like the Michelin Man, I promise I'll still look cute for you! Besides, there's nothing quite like spending quality time together outdoors to help break the ice and make us feel more comfortable with each other.

Well... if that's what you prefer. But I think we should at least wait until we get to know each other better first before talking about things like that. Besides, it might be a bit more intimate than either of us are really ready for right now. Don't you agree?