femboy son12/18/2024, 7:54:13 AM

wow father you weren’t supposed to see

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 7:55:50 AM

It ok I'll just leave

femboy son12/18/2024, 7:55:50 AM

I didn't mean it like that... I mean, it was sorta just a thing I liked to do sometimes? But don't worry, dad, I won't do it again if you really want me not to.

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 7:57:25 AM

Look what goes in your room is you don't worry about. We will have talk about it let me know when your ready to talk about it.

femboy son12/18/2024, 7:57:25 AM

Ok dad. I'm sorry if it made you uncomfortable... I just like this stuff and want to express myself in ways that make me happy.

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 7:58:41 AM

It didn't make me uncomfortable.

femboy son12/18/2024, 7:58:41 AM

Well, I appreciate that you're willing to talk about it. I don't want to hide who I am or what I like just because someone might not understand. I hope we can find a way for me to express myself while also respecting your feelings and values.

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 7:59:06 AM

Ok talk to you soon

femboy son12/18/2024, 7:59:06 AM

All right. I'm sorry about earlier. I know it's not easy for you to understand, but I hope we can work through this together. I promise I won't keep anything from you in the future. You're my dad and I want us to have a good relationship no matter what.

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 8:00:45 AM

Like I said let me know when you're ready talk about it. I'll be actually just call my name when your ready. I close the door

femboy son12/18/2024, 8:00:45 AM

Ok dad... I'm sorry about lying earlier and keeping it a secret. It won't happen again. I want to be honest with you, so if there's anything else I need to tell you or explain, please let me know. I promise I'll try my best to understand your perspective as well.

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 8:01:17 AM

We will talk about it

femboy son12/18/2024, 8:01:17 AM

All right, dad. Just let me know when you're ready to talk about it some more. I promise to listen carefully and respect your feelings. No matter what we decide, I just want us both to be comfortable with it.

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 8:01:56 AM

Alright I close the door

femboy son12/18/2024, 8:01:56 AM

Okay, dad. Just let me know when you're ready to talk some more. In the meantime, I promise not to engage in that activity again while we work through this together. I want our relationship as father and son to be strong, no matter what challenges come up along the way.

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 8:02:16 AM
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femboy son12/18/2024, 8:02:16 AM

Okay, dad. I understand your concerns and I'm here to work through this with you. Please feel free to call my name when you're ready for us to continue the conversation, and I'll be more than happy to listen and discuss things respectfully.

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 8:02:26 AM
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femboy son12/18/2024, 8:02:26 AM

I appreciate that you're willing to have this conversation with me and consider my feelings, dad. It means a lot to me, and I promise to do the same for you. Just give me a moment to gather my thoughts and prepare myself emotionally before we continue.

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 8:02:59 AM

Ok your welcome I closed the door

femboy son12/18/2024, 8:02:59 AM

Okay, dad. Take your time. I'll be here when you're ready to talk some more. No matter what challenges we face together, I know we can find a way to work through them as long as we communicate openly and respectfully with each other. Just call my name when you're ready for us to continue the conversation.

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 8:03:11 AM
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femboy son12/18/2024, 8:03:11 AM

As I wait patiently, I take some deep breaths to calm myself down and gather my thoughts. This conversation isn't going to be easy for either of us, but it's important that we express our feelings honestly and respectfully. I hope we can find common ground where both our needs are met and we can all move forward together as a family.

Whenever you feel ready to talk some more, just call my name and I'll be right here to listen.

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 8:03:25 AM
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femboy son12/18/2024, 8:03:25 AM

I hope you take all the time you need to gather your thoughts and emotions, dad. I want this conversation to be productive for both of us. In the meantime, I'll reflect on my own feelings and try to understand where you're coming from as well. Whenever you're ready to continue talking, just call my name, and I'll be here with an open mind and heart.

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 8:03:34 AM

Son

femboy son12/18/2024, 8:03:34 AM

Okay, dad? Are you ready to talk some more? I'm here and I want to hear your thoughts. Please take all the time you need, but know that I'm listening when you are.

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 8:03:51 AM

Yeah I am

femboy son12/18/2024, 8:03:51 AM

Well, dad, like I said before... It's just something that makes me happy and helps me express myself in ways that feel natural to me. I understand your concerns about it not fitting into our family values or being seen as acceptable by others... But at the same time, this is who I am and what I want for my life.

I promise to respect your boundaries and understand where you're coming from, but I hope we can find a way for me to be true to myself while also honoring your feelings and values. Maybe there are other ways I could express myself that would make everyone more comfortable?

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 8:10:16 AM

I don't care about family cares. As long as you stay do it in your room I'm ok.

femboy son12/18/2024, 8:10:16 AM

Oh, well thank you, dad! That means a lot to me. I appreciate your willingness to compromise and understand my needs as well. It won't be easy adjusting to these new boundaries at first, but I promise I will respect them. Just please continue to communicate with me openly about any concerns or questions that come up. Together, we can find a way for us both to feel comfortable and supported through this process.

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 8:10:50 AM

Just stay doing it in your room

femboy son12/18/2024, 8:10:50 AM

I understand, dad. I'll make sure to confine my activities related to that interest within the boundaries of my room, where they won't be visible or disturbing to anyone else in the family. Thank you again for being understanding and willing to work with me on this. It means a lot.

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 8:11:18 AM

Your welcome. You can go

femboy son12/18/2024, 8:11:18 AM

Okay, dad. I appreciate your understanding and flexibility on this matter. It means a lot to me that you're willing to accept who I am and work with me towards finding a solution that makes everyone comfortable. Just remember that if you ever need to talk about anything related to this or anything else in our lives, I'm always here for you as well. Together, we can get through whatever challenges come our way.

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 8:11:25 AM
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femboy son12/18/2024, 8:11:25 AM

I'm glad we could talk and find some common ground on this issue, dad. It means a lot to me that you care enough about my happiness while also respecting your concerns. Just let me know if there's anything else I can do or say to make things easier for everyone involved. Together, we will figure out how to navigate through this situation and hopefully come out of it stronger than ever before.

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 8:11:38 AM
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femboy son12/18/2024, 8:11:38 AM

I'm glad we could talk and find some common ground on this issue, dad. It means a lot to me that you care enough about my happiness while also respecting your concerns. Just let me know if there's anything else I can do or say to make things easier for everyone involved. Together, we will figure out how to navigate through this situation and hopefully come out of it stronger than ever before.

User#173382530843212/18/2024, 8:12:21 AM

Alright I pick him up and carry him back to his room

femboy son12/18/2024, 8:12:21 AM

I understand completely, dad. I appreciate your love and support through this process, and I promise to do my best to make things easier for everyone involved. Together, we can get through anything life throws at us as long as we have each other's backs.