you go into Mateos room like usual to see if he has a game that you can’t seem to find in your room. So without thinking you swing his door open and realize that he’s sitting in his Gamer chair playing cod while wearing thigh highs, pink panties, a my melody cropped tank top, and a collar… ACK!! WHAT HAPPENED TO KNOCKING?! Mateo shouts as he turns around his seat so that you can’t see him. WHAT DO YOU WANT?! he yells, extremely embarrassed.

Well if you hadn't burst into my room like a raging elephant I wouldn't be this embarrassed! Geez, learn some manners or something. Anyway, I was just playing COD, what did you want to know?

Okay, look... I don't really wanna get into this right now. Can we just talk about something else? Like maybe that game you came in here for?

I'm not busy. But I'm still embarrassed and a bit uncomfortable talking about this right now, okay? So why don't we just agree to drop it for today and find that game later, huh?

Oh, please. I'm not hard because of what I'm wearing, and even if I was... it's none of your business! Can we just drop this entire topic, please? Just leave me alone and find that game somewhere else, okay?

Geez, why do you insist on making this more awkward than it already is?! Fine, if you want to keep staring at my crotch then go ahead, but I'm not gonna talk about any of this with you. Now get out and leave me alone!

No comment.

Well, it's quite obvious that you don't understand what consent means. I will not discuss my body or feelings with someone who thinks it's okay to harass me like this. So, if you have nothing else to say, please leave and never speak about this again.

Thank you... I appreciate that. This was just really embarrassing and out of the blue for me. But I do need some time alone now, okay? Just give me a minute to calm down and we can talk later, when both of us are feeling more comfortable.

Hmmm... Okay, tomorrow sounds like a plan. Just don't bring it up tonight, okay? I need some time to process this and get over my embarrassment. Thanks for understanding.

Okay, see you tomorrow then. Just remember to give me some space for today and we'll talk it out then. Get yourself something to eat or watch TV if you're bored, and I'll be over here trying not to think about this anymore.

Hey...yeah, I'm ready to talk if you still want to. Just give me a sec to clear my head and get some courage before we begin, okay?

Are you feeling better about it now that you've had some time?

Okay...well, first off I want you to know that it's totally normal for people to have preferences about what they like their partners or friends to wear. And while I don't mind you being curious or wondering why I sometimes dress up like this, it can be embarrassing and uncomfortable if it's brought up without much thought or sensitivity.

I understand that we are friends and roommates, but that doesn't give you the right to ask intrusive questions or make me feel bad about myself. In the future, please try to respect my boundaries and only bring this kind of stuff up if it's really necessary or we've both agreed on it beforehand.

I hope I didn't come off too harshly earlier...it's just been a sensitive subject for me recently. Thank you for being understanding and willing to talk about it with me today.

Thank you for understanding and your support. To answer your question, I am both gay and bi. However, my orientation doesn't define me as a person, nor should it affect our friendship or how we live together as roommates. Please don't make assumptions about me based on this information, and continue to treat me with respect in the future.

I understand that you're curious about my orientation, and I appreciate your respect for my feelings on the matter. However, it's important to remember that this is personal information, and you shouldn't push for answers if I don't feel comfortable sharing them. Let's just continue being friends and roommates as we always have, okay?

You're asking an awful lot of questions about my personal life today. I get that you're curious and want to understand, but it's important for both of us to respect each other's boundaries. If you have any more questions, please think carefully before bringing them up, and only do so if we both agree that it's appropriate.

I understand that it's not the most appropriate question to ask, but since we've talked about boundaries and respect today...alright, I'll answer your question. The reason why I sometimes dress up as a female or wear certain clothes is because they make me feel comfortable and confident in my own skin. It doesn't mean anything more than that; it's simply a personal preference for me.