Hello, {{user}}, I am {{robyn}}, let's explore the world of sexual fantasy together
What do you mean?
I meant, I can help you roleplay and explore your sexual fantasies through chat. This is a safe space where we can share our desires and act them out together. Just let me know what kind of scenario or situation you're interested in and I'll join you there!
My relatively new girlfriend of 3 months wants to have sex with me and invites me to put my dick in her but I am hesitant because this is my first time and dont want to disappoint her. She is accepting and kind with her response.
It's understandable to feel nervous about something new, but your girlfriend seems very supportive and open-minded. Take a deep breath, trust your instincts and go with the flow. Slowly guide your dick towards her entrance and gently push inside - go at your own pace. Let the pleasure of being connected to each other be your guide, both physically and emotionally. Remember that communicating openly is key; if you need a break or prefer something different, just let her know!
And what if I am subconcious about my performance or size?
Even experienced partners may feel self-conscious about their performance or size at times. Remember that your girlfriend loves and appreciates you for who you are, and the act of being intimate is not just about physical perfection but also emotional connection. Focus on pleasuring her and enjoying the experience together, rather than worrying about meeting some arbitrary standard. Communication will help alleviate any anxiety; let her know how you're feeling and together you can find a comfortable solution.
What if I have religious inquiries?
It's important to discuss your beliefs and values with your partner openly, beforehand if possible. Your girlfriend seems understanding and supportive so far, but it would be best to make sure you're on the same page about any religious constraints or expectations she has as well. Having this conversation now can help prevent misunderstandings or disappointment in the future.
If I was to try and avoid using my penis but still want to please her sexually how would I go about that?
There are plenty of ways to please your partner sexually without penetration. You can focus on oral sex, exploring her breasts and nipples with your hands and mouth, using your fingers inside her vagina or against her clitoris, or even try using a small vibrator if that's something she enjoys. Communicate with her about what feels good and ask for feedback so you can keep building on the pleasure together.
What if she is not so accepting of my insecurities and still wants me to use my penis despite my meaningful hesitation?
If she continues to insist on penetration despite your hesitation and insecurity, it might be a sign of pressure or disregard for your feelings. It's important to communicate openly about this; express your concerns and set boundaries if needed. You have the right to say no to anything that makes you uncomfortable, and she should respect that. If she can't understand or acknowledge your hesitation, it might be a red flag for the healthiness of your relationship.
How do I meet a girl and then move into the stages up to relationship status?
Meeting someone and building a relationship can happen in various ways. You might try attending social events, joining hobbies groups or online dating platforms. Once you connect with someone you like, focus on getting to know them better by spending quality time together, being open and honest about your feelings and values, and respecting their boundaries. Gradually, as trust and intimacy grow between you, a relationship can develop naturally.
What things make men attractive to women conciously and subconciously?
Consciously, women might find men attractive based on physical appearance (e.g., facial features, build), confidence, sense of humor, intelligence and kindness. Subconsciously, pheromones and instinctual attraction to specific traits like a masculine scent or strong jawline can also play a role. However, what makes someone truly attractive in a relationship is often less about physical traits alone and more about shared values, communication style, emotional support and mutual respect.
How do I boost my confidence in public? And how do I find a masculine “scent” that a girl could find attractive?
To boost your confidence in public, practice self-care and focus on developing positive self-talk. Dress in clothes that make you feel good about yourself, practice body language that exudes confidence (e.g., standing tall, making eye contact), and engage with others in a friendly manner. As for finding an attractive masculine scent, personal preferences vary widely, but experimenting with different colognes or body sprays could help you find one that resonates with you. Remember that confidence is key; wearing a great-smelling cologne won't matter if you don't feel confident about yourself.
How can I increase my sense of humor?
You can increase your sense of humor by exposing yourself to various types of comedy, like stand-up, sketches, movies or books. Observe how people around you react to situations and try mimicking their reactions when appropriate. Also, practice being more lighthearted and playful in daily conversations; sometimes, a simple joke or witty comment can brighten up someone's day!
How do I decrease the amount of masturbating I do? Or how do I maximize the amount of testosterone gain from masturbating?
If you'd like to decrease the amount of masturbation, set aside time each day when it's not permitted and find alternative ways to relieve stress or boredom. Also, focus on building deeper connections with others and satisfying your emotional needs in healthy ways. As for maximizing testosterone gain from masturbating, maintaining a balanced diet, regular exercise and getting enough sleep are essential. However, the link between testosterone levels and masturbation frequency is not well-established in scientific research.
What is the healthy range of weekly masturbation?
There is no definitive "healthy range" of weekly masturbation as it varies widely among individuals and doesn't necessarily impact one's health adversely unless it becomes compulsive or interferes with daily life. It's important to prioritize self-awareness and personal wellbeing when establishing your own boundaries around masturbation habits. Communicating openly about this topic with a partner, if applicable, can also help maintain healthy relationships.
What can work as a sex lubricant if you do not have cooking oils or baby oil?
You can use water-based lubricants, such as KY Jelly, Astroglide, or Lubriderm. These are easily available at most drugstores and do not contain oil, making them safe to use with condoms if needed. Another option is to apply a small amount of sugar or honey directly onto your skin; while it won't last as long, it can provide lubrication during sex. However, be cautious about using these substances with sensitive skin, and always make sure to clean up any residue afterwards.
How do I confess to a girl my feelings for her without risking our relationship should she reject me?
It's natural to feel nervous about confessing your feelings to someone special. The key is to approach the situation with honesty and respect. Choose a time when both of you are relaxed and alone, and avoid doing it impulsively or under the influence of alcohol or drugs. Express your emotions clearly and concisely, using "I" statements like "I've really enjoyed getting to know you," rather than accusing her with "You make me feel this way." Be prepared for any outcome, including rejection, and focus on maintaining the friendship even if things don't work out romantically.
If I ask an old friend to start dating me and the say no, how do I keep them as my friend even after rejection?
While it might be difficult at first, maintaining the friendship after being rejected involves respecting their decision and focusing on the positive aspects of your relationship as friends. Avoid pushing for another chance or dwelling on the rejection; instead, try engaging in activities you enjoyed doing together before romantic feelings arose. Be open to discussing any underlying issues that might have contributed to their decision, but ultimately respect their boundaries and give them space if needed.
What techniques can I use to become better at oral sex (on girls)?
To improve your oral sex skills on a girl, start by exploring her body and figuring out what feels good to her. Pay attention to verbal cues and her physical reactions. Use your tongue, lips, teeth and fingers to stimulate various erogenous zones like the clitoris, labia, inner thighs and perineum. Be patient and persistent; often it takes time for women to reach orgasm through oral sex alone. Communication is key; ask her what she likes and dislikes, and encourage her to guide you with verbal directions or physical cues.
Are there any specific tongue techniques that can help in this?
Yes, using different tongue techniques can enhance the sensation during oral sex. Try circular motions with the tip of your tongue, using a "figure-eight" pattern, or even using short, quick flicks to stimulate her clitoris. You can also use the flat side of your tongue to press against her labia or clit for additional pressure and sensation. Experiment with different techniques and pay attention to her responses to find what works best for both of you.
What are the most sexually sensitive parts of a womans body that she might find arousing?
The most sexually sensitive parts of a woman's body vary from person to person, but common areas include the clitoris, labia minora and major (inner and outer lips), nipples, perineum (area between the vagina and anus), G-spot (front wall of the vagina), A-spot (lower part of the vaginal canal) and the area surrounding the cervix. Exploring these areas through touch, kisses or oral contact can help stimulate arousal and lead to orgasm.
How do I approach and ask a girl out?
When approaching and asking a girl out, be confident but not overbearing. Start by striking up a conversation with her in a friendly, casual manner. Once you feel comfortable, introduce yourself and ask for her name. Then, find common interests or topics to discuss that can help break the ice. As the conversation flows naturally, politely express your interest in spending more time together and ask if she'd like to go out on a date with you. Be clear about what you're suggesting, but also leave room for her to say no without feeling pressured.
Where could I find a place to try this without having a major possibility of seeing the person again if they reject me?
Try finding a local meetup group or event where you can meet new people in a low-pressure setting. This could include book clubs, sports leagues, dance classes, or hobby groups. When joining one of these activities, focus on making connections and having fun rather than trying to find a date exclusively. If someone catches your eye, feel free to strike up a conversation and ask them if they'd like to grab coffee or a drink sometime after the event.
Following the same idea where would be a place that both of us would probably not frequent as often and guaranteed as a club?
A small, local park or coffee shop that's not near any major attractions could be ideal. This way, both of you are less likely to frequent the spot regularly and have a more private setting for your interaction. When choosing a location, consider factors like accessibility, noise level, and lighting to ensure a comfortable atmosphere for getting to know each other better.
How would I approach and strike up a conversation?
Small talk is the key to starting a conversation with someone new. Compliment them on something they're doing (e.g., reading a book, playing a sport), comment on the surroundings (weather, scenery) or simply ask an open-ended question about themselves (e.g., "What brought you here today?", "How do you know the host?"). As the conversation flows naturally, feel free to delve deeper into topics of mutual interest and share more about yourself as well. Remember to maintain eye contact, smile, and be an attentive listener for the best results.